“I never want to Zoom again,” a colleague said to me the other day.
Zoom. Teams. Go To Meeting.
Pick any medium you like. The general consensus after six months of a pandemic is that online meetings are about as annoying these days as in person meetings were before the plague. Except, for a number of physiological and psychological reasons, virtual meetings somehow feel more taxing…as if we ever thought that could be possible.
And, as a parent, Zoom School is…well…a practice in education and patience across all sides of the screen.
Virtual meetings are here to stay, I think.
Like healthcare, once people are given something (like the opportunity to work from home), gathering them back into the office on the regular will be more difficult.
I suspect the same will be true for the religious practices of the world, too, for better and for worse.
I heard a pastor say the other day that they had a small regathering of the faithful, and that the people who showed (around 20 or so) were “simply giddy” to be back in person. And I’m sure they were!
But what about the folks who didn’t show?
My hunch is that many people will go to their congregations through St. Youtube of the Screens with more regularity.
I don’t say that with any sort of judgment or even sadness. I’m just saying it…it’s how things have been forced to move, and it’ll be hard to go back. New metrics and ways of measuring ministry will have to be formed to account for this kind of virtual participation, especially as it appears that in-person gatherings on a large scale will not be possible for some time. And even when it becomes possible, church is not very embodied when we can’t touch one another, touch the sacraments, and sing.
It’s just not.
One of the peculiar things that the pandemic has forced everyone to experience, in one way or another, is the pesky problem of the “mute button.”
Oh, the dreaded mute!
Nothing is more annoying than a person beginning a long speech or a response, only to realize they were on mute. The frustrated participants waiting for their words say with alternating humor and exhaustion, “You’re on mute…you’re on mute…”
The mute button is instructive for us, though, and I think we should take this opportunity to think about it a bit. Let’s not let this crisis go to waste!
What voices in our world regularly operate on mute?
BIPOC? LGBTQIA+? Native American? Women, especially women trying to climb a corporate ladder?
What about children? Those for whom English is a second language? Religious minorities? People who don’t practice any religion? The very elderly?
The difference is that these voices have been “muted by the host” throughout history because it has been thought that their commentary wasn’t germane to the conversation. Or, more to the point, whether it was germane or not, it wasn’t wanted.
In fact, many of these populations have also had their cameras disabled, made largely invisible in large conversations. Or we shove them into breakout-rooms of their own so that we can largely ignore their input.
And now there are fears that other sections of humanity, who have often been the hosts of these large-scale life meetings throughout the world are being put on mute: white men, the cis-gendered, and in the United States, Christians. These fears largely stem from the realization that, well, other people would like to host meetings once in a while and have been prevented from doing just that and even barred from doing just that and, like any good host, dominating voices sometimes do need to be put on mute so others can be heard!
Our political and cultural schisms at the moment are all about the mute button, Beloved.
The problem, of course, is that for all intents and purposes, all of history, all of life, has been one big Zoom meeting, even though we haven’t had language for it until just recently.
Virtual meetings are designed to mirror the way culture has designed our common life: some are muted, some are hosts. You get engaged in them and you soon realize how undemocratic they are…and, by extension, how undemocratic most of life is.
Oh, sure…we talk a good democratic game, but the functions embedded in virtual meetings are too familiar to not see the similarities.
Some are on camera, some are kept from being seen.
If you have a question, use the “chat function,” and we’ll see if we get to it…
Maybe this is why Zoom is so exhausting: it’s just our normal operating procedure without any pretense, mirrors, or charades.
But in this moment, we actually have an opportunity.
We have an opportunity to un-mute some of the voices history has long muted.
It’s happening on the streets, but now it can happen in our virtual meetings, too.
Now it can happen in our virtual church services, too.
Now the audience is captive, Beloved, and elevating those voices so that they have a chance to speak is one of the ways this crisis can steer us toward progress rather than stall us all.
Who is on mute in our world?
In your virtual gatherings, who is perpetually on mute and who forgets to put themselves on mute? How can we use this opportunity to shift the power dynamics in such a way that we come out of this plague having heard new things, seen new faces, and gained new understanding, even from the (dis)comfort of our own homes?
When we speak out about the muted voices of the world, some will get uncomfortable. Some will not like the suggestion that they mute themselves so others can be heard over the noise of history they’re adding, consciously or unconsciously, to the conversation.
But seize the opportunity nonetheless.
Because for too long some voices have been on mute in this world, and now is a time they can be heard, by God.