Dear Mr. “of Nazareth,”*
We’re grateful that you applied for the position of pastor at our church. Unfortunately we do not think that you are what we are looking for at this time.
In other words, “hard pass.”
We find you to be entirely too political in your public presence. Word has gotten back to us that you participated in a recent riot at the temple, and were seen chasing people out of their stalls. We find this kind of action unacceptable and far too controversial.
In addition, your sermon from the mountain top in recent days (which went viral, and not in a good way), though encouraging for certain demographics, failed to speak to all demographics with words of Godly comfort. Making claims that some people are “blessed” implies that some are not, and we’re not comfortable with that kind of explicit bias.
In observing your lifestyle through social media, we note that you’re often found at local hangouts with people of questionable background. As our mothers often told us, “Show us who you hang around, and you show us who you are.” We know who you are. These people are not the kind of people we want in our church, and should we call you as our pastor we’d expect you to cut ties with those kinds of people.
We also think you are far too young to lead a congregation on your own. At thirty-three years of age, you haven’t had enough experience to teach and preach the way you do. Your boldness is not only off-putting, but troubling to many, and maybe a bit narcissistic.
In addition you:
-do not dress appropriately for the role.
-do not adhere to the behavioral norms that we expect from our leaders (must you really break the rules so much?).
-seem to advocate for things/people/ideas that make us uncomfortable
-speak to women as you do men, and find that blurring of gender-lines to be confusing.
And while we like the fact that you can attract crowds, we’re afraid that would bring too much of the wrong kind of attention, and we’d prefer not to make waves.
We think that perhaps you should entertain going back to school for continued training, or consider a profession that doesn’t involve public ministry.
*consider changing this name